Help for Burn Victims
If you have a loved one that has suffered a particularly extensive burn injury there are many ways that you can help. I am not talking about how to apply first aid immediately following the accident - but how to behave with them when they are recovering or have returned home.
*First, allow the person to grieve. The experience was most likely traumatic and there may be any number of physical scars that could either be temporary or permanent. Understand that burn victims will exhibit all of the signs of someone who has actually lost a loved one and both the victim and his or her family should seek professional counseling to deal with the myriad emotional problems that are sure to arise.
*Allow the person to resume as many of the normal activities as they are able to undertake. If they are required to help around the house - don't change that policy. If they hold down a job and can return to work - they should do this. No matter how devastating the burns - do not allow them to hide in the house. Require them to get back to life.
*Help them to forge friendships with others who have had similar experiences. This is not as difficult as it may sound with the proliferation of the internet and technology that has all but shrunk the world.
Encourage the person to develop a support system as well - and attend survivor's group meetings or other group events.
